How do I get married and finally said yes when I have been saying NO all these while? Answer is, Allah has that plan for me. I don't know him that well but from everyone around him, they say he is nice. I didn't take long to say YES. I don't know him for 5 years, 6 years like some people (couple?) do. I want to have a halal relationship. When he confessed to me, I told him to go and see my wali and he did not hesitate. So I present to you the timeline of my story in finding love...
1st April 2011 - I reported for work in UTM SPACE
5th April 2011 - For the first time I talked to him because I need to find out about my lesson. I just knew then he is my school senior.
15 May 2011 - Zaid messaged me on FB asking me to call him because he needed to ask about Sumer school. Hence the first call. For work.
15 May 2011 - Mak asked me to fill in Baitul Muslim's form. I did not say NO though my heart say I am not ready.
16 May 2011 - Zaid and I talked. Work, school, family, like a senior and junior of school.
19 May 2011 - Finally decided to do what mum asked me to do; fill in baitul muslim's form. Answers from me were all ridiculous.
Later that night: I called him to ask about should I bring iron at the camp (for the outbound program for Thailand summer school in Mersing). we talked longer than I expected.
20 May 2011 - Outbound Program for Summer School Thailand in Sekakap Mersing. Unexpectedly closer because of the program. He is like a senior and big brother that I'm really comfortable to talk to.
22 May - Got back from Mersing. Received message in FB. From Zaid. Saw the title. Relaxed. Read the content. SURPRISED!!!! So he was nice to me because he kinda like me? Can't believe it. I replied. I told him if he likes me please see my wali (bapak). And more surprising was that he sent it after we finished talking on the 19th.
23 June 2011 - Zaid's parents came to my house see my parents. Marriage was confirm through discussion. We got engaged. I was wearing black abaya and brown hijab. Nothing extravaganza. Because it was unexpected.
7 January 2012 - He is my husband. I am now a wife. The moment he said his akad, it was raining... So did my heart and my eyes.
This is my story and now it had became a love story. I learn about him more after we are married and I fall in love everyday.
A month into the marriage. Universal Studios Singapore. May Allah bless our marriage.
What happen to the baitul muslim's form? I never had the chance to send it. Because Allah sent me my soulmate before I manage to send the form. Alhamdulillah.
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